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Dear Gil,

My best friend's boyfriend says that the only reason he dates her is to get to me.(which i think is weird) Now when i told my friend she yelled at me and said the only reason i was tell her this was to take her man. I feel really bad because she won't talk to me

What should i do?

-Love Stinks

I think you should try talking to her, and if she can't trust you then she not a very good friend.(Is She?) If she won't listen, just let it be let her come to you.

My Ex-girlfriend wanted to break up, and start dating other people,So we did. Then I started to dating a girl i met at work, which is now my wife to be. And now my Ex calls me and tells me she want to get back with me and i told her NO i told her i was going to get married with a women i REALLY LOVE. So she and call my girlfriend and told her i had sex with her and she was going to kick her ass if we got married. When i came home my wife told me what had happen and told not to worry because she trust me.

But what should i do about my hopeless Ex

I think you got a great trusting girl friend and she will make a great wife(God Bless Her). I think you should tell you Ex to get a life and to let you live yours. If you fear that what your Ex said to your girl friend about hurting her i think you should contact the police. Keep up the trust with your wife and good luck!!!

Hey Gil

heres my problem i want your help with...i have recently been dating my boyfrend of 3months going on four... we have a wierd relationship...i dont care what i do around him i can be myself(which is a good thing) but he never calls... for about the first two months , occasionly , usualy he would just leave after scool not even saying bye... i like him so much and i dont even know why... all my friends tell me that i have great patience because im still with him...but i dont know why i do so much... now i feel like i care so much for him... but he doesnt care about me... ALOT of girls like him..one of them bieng one of my good friends..and she flirts so much with him and he doesnt realize that hes flirting back...and then he sometimes acts like im in his world but then sumtimes just like im not even there..i want to find out how he feels about me but im just scared... not because of rejection.. but because hes one of those *im lost 24/7* guys and i dont thk hed no how to tell me and i really wanna no so i no im not wasting my time carin about sum wun who doesnt care about me..

thanxx

help

-krasziie4him

Dear krasziie4him,

I think this is something you should take up with him, be honest and tell you don't like when he does not call, you don't like that fact the he is always lost, let him know that you don't like him flirting with other girls. If he can't do little thing like call ect. maybe hes not the guy for you. But if you care let him know and ask him if he cares back. But you can't be stuck on him if he doesnt because thats not good. So what i am trying to say is if does not feel the same way you do about then drop it,cause if you don't you will be wasting you time.

Hope this is of some help

-Gil